These past few years, it’s been a real thrill for us Midwesterners to have the chance to participate in the New England ritual of clamming. Unlike my husband Josh, who spent his childhood splitting time between his parents in Milwaukee and Massachusetts, the rest of us are still relative newbies at east coast life. Josh and his brother Tod even had their own lobster pots when they were kids, identified by buoys unique to the family. They learned to boat and fish and do all th